{"id":3690,"date":"2023-12-01T14:36:41","date_gmt":"2023-12-01T14:36:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cacaunews.com\/?p=3690"},"modified":"2023-12-01T14:36:41","modified_gmt":"2023-12-01T14:36:41","slug":"leia-os-melindres-no-whatsapp-por-maria-reis-goncalves-tia-nem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cacaunews.com\/?p=3690","title":{"rendered":"Leia, Os Melindres no Whatsapp &#8211; por:  Maria Reis Gon\u00e7alves (Tia Nem)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Em conversa com uma amiga, sobre as nossas irrita\u00e7\u00f5es nos grupos de whatsapp, e rindo falei para ela que temos um P\u00e9 de Melindre dentro de n\u00f3s, que nunca morre, pois nos preocupamos em reg\u00e1-lo todos os dias para que continue vivo e vistoso. A conversa girava em torno da facilidade em que ficamos zangados, nos melindramos com palavras alheias, pois quando escritas, elas soam conforme a nossa percep\u00e7\u00e3o de sentimentos e assimila\u00e7\u00e3o.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O melindre \u00e9 um atestado gritante de nosso orgulho, desse orgulho que costumamos valorizar como algo inerente \u00e0 nossa personalidade, e que n\u00e3o admite ser contrariado e que sempre pede valoriza\u00e7\u00e3o ou reconhecimento por qualquer coisa que fa\u00e7amos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>A prova \u00e9 que ao sermos contrariados, perguntamos logo, sobre a pessoa causadora da nossa contrariedade: &#8211; Quem ela (e) pensa que \u00e9?; Quem deu direito a ele (a) para falar assim comigo? etc. Isso, sem nos importarmos quem est\u00e1 ou n\u00e3o com raz\u00e3o e sem querer saber das possibilidades de aprendizado que a situa\u00e7\u00e3o pode nos trazer, futuramente. E essas circunst\u00e2ncias fortalecem o nosso P\u00e9 de Melindre interior e novamente o regamos para que ele n\u00e3o venha a perecer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O Melindre n\u00e3o passa de um orgulho que vem da vaidade e que nos faz pensar sermos melhores que os outros e bem mais importante do que realmente somos, e nos leva a compararmos com os outros, sendo que eles sempre perdem, pois questionamos a valoriza\u00e7\u00e3o ou mesmo a posi\u00e7\u00e3o que o outro ocupa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Na verdade o Melindre n\u00e3o passa de uma enfermidade psicol\u00f3gica, que ataca nosso ju\u00edzo,  portanto moral e, que nos afasta das condi\u00e7\u00f5es de toler\u00e2ncia, paci\u00eancia e discernimento. E n\u00e3o \u00e9 por falta de esclarecimento. Pois, quanto mais a pessoa possui conhecimento, mais o P\u00e9 de Melindre cresce. Nos grupos de Whatsapp podemos observar os melindres dos participantes aflorados, qualquer palavra pode soar como um ataque, um assedio, uma ofensa, uma desvaloriza\u00e7\u00e3o ou mesmo interfer\u00eancia no espa\u00e7o do outro, e quando isso acontece, o P\u00e9 de Melindre balan\u00e7a seus galhos pra l\u00e1, pra c\u00e1,  enverga, e mostra toda sua firmeza em solo f\u00e9rtil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"233\" height=\"373\" src=\"https:\/\/cacaunews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image_editor_output_image-981527552-1701441339883.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3688\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cacaunews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image_editor_output_image-981527552-1701441339883.jpg 233w, https:\/\/cacaunews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image_editor_output_image-981527552-1701441339883-187x300.jpg 187w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 233px) 100vw, 233px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Maria Reis Gon\u00e7alves (Tia Nem), \u00e9 Psic\u00f3loga, Especialista em Psicologia Comportamental<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Em conversa com uma amiga, sobre as nossas irrita\u00e7\u00f5es nos grupos de whatsapp, e rindo&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3689,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,11],"tags":[851,697,178,1442,1443],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Leia, Os Melindres no Whatsapp - por: Maria Reis Gon\u00e7alves (Tia Nem) - Cacau News<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/cacaunews.com\/?p=3690\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"pt_BR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Leia, Os Melindres no Whatsapp - por: Maria Reis Gon\u00e7alves (Tia Nem) - Cacau News\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Em conversa com uma amiga, sobre as nossas irrita\u00e7\u00f5es nos grupos de whatsapp, e rindo...\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/cacaunews.com\/?p=3690\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Cacau News\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2023-12-01T14:36:41+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/cacaunews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image_editor_output_image-981527552-1701441339883.jpg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Reda\u00e7\u00e3o Cacau News\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Escrito por\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Reda\u00e7\u00e3o Cacau News\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. tempo de leitura\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minutos\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/cacaunews.com\/?p=3690#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/cacaunews.com\/?p=3690\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Reda\u00e7\u00e3o Cacau News\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/cacaunews.com\/#\/schema\/person\/ea69703103e606ad347ccd64bd72ef79\"},\"headline\":\"Leia, Os Melindres no Whatsapp &#8211; 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